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Confused and perplexed!

The things people do never fail to leave me puzzled ....

That is all ....

FOS!

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Damn straight!

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Opinions

"In order for your shallow judgement to insult me, I first have to value your opinion."

Read this one simple line in a story today and it made quite an impact on me.

Felt the need to document it for future reference!

Daily Soap

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Fake V Real

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Butterflies

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No man is an Island

Why do you care what others think of you ...

"because you don't live alone on this planet and your survival depends on the society you live in"

An answer given by another EP member that struck a cord and I just wanted to write it down for when I needed it!

Cracks and Dust Bunnies 2

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Cracks and Dust Bunnies

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If you post it ...

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Skank

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Left Field

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Naive .. still

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Suicidal

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Just too slow

Don't you hate it when you answer a question and someone leaves a nasty comment in reply and you immediately jump in with both feet to respond and you write the first thing that pops into your head!

THEN .. lying awake in bed thinking over the day, you come up with the most brilliant response but it is just too late to go back and change things!!!

That happened yesterday regarding another EP member calling me a sheep ... if only I had thought about it for a minute or two instead of answering him right away, I could have come up with a witty and funny response!

Now I will have to bide my time until someone else happens to call me a sheep so I can hurridly add my brilliant response. Better write it down somewhere so I have it handy .. just in case :)

Judgements

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Burst Bubble

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Musing .. on things said in the past .. and mistaken meanings.

I've had some things tumbling around in my head for a while now and thought writing them down might make them clearer for me. They might not make a great deal of sense but putting them "out there" cant hurt either right?

When you are a member of EP you have the privilege of meeting some amazing people. People who bring many different things to your life. New ideas, different ways of looking at things and new views on how to move forward in life.

Not all the interactions you have here are positive. Even the bad ones have a positive angle if you take a step back and look at them objectively. You always take away something new you have learned from a negative experience .. understand what not to do or what not to say next time... how to protect yourself from those that are toxic.
 
While the negative usually has a "silver lining" I am not about to leave myself in a situation that is becoming progressively negative and bringing nothing positive to the exchange. By positive, I don't mean only positive for me .. I don't want flattery and accolades  ... I want something positive from you ... about you ... 

Something you have seen that made you smile, a happy memory, a flavor that you haven't experienced before, a step in the right direction you have made recently ...  

No one can survive on negativity all the time .. and if that is all you or I bring to our "friendship" then someone has to take a step back ... end things before both become "infected".

Having said that, I'm by no means a "fair weather friend". That's not what friendship is about. It's sharing the highs and the lows once you have built a connection. But it has to go both ways .. I'll weather the lows with you each and every time so long as I know I can count on you to do the same with me. You can't brush off my hard times because you are so engrossed in "you"! I also want to share the highs with you too .. be there to celebrate your "wins" and share in the times when all is right in your world.

To those who have been true and lasting friends .. I feel blessed to have been allowed into your world. To see a little of the way you "tick" and to be able to learn from your experiences vicariously. Thank you for the time you invested getting to know me .. the real me, not just the facade that we all wear. Sometimes I am a little difficult to "crack" .. guess that's the downside of being painfully shy, but I hope your efforts have been worth it!


 


Pondering Friendship

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Previous Posts
Confused and perplexed!, posted January 30th, 2014, 1 comment
FOS!, posted January 21st, 2014
Damn straight!, posted January 18th, 2014
Opinions, posted December 5th, 2013
Daily Soap, posted August 27th, 2013, 1 comment
Fake V Real, posted June 7th, 2013
Butterflies, posted May 23rd, 2013, 6 comments
No man is an Island, posted May 10th, 2013, 2 comments
Cracks and Dust Bunnies 2, posted May 8th, 2013
Cracks and Dust Bunnies, posted May 8th, 2013, 3 comments
If you post it ..., posted February 14th, 2013, 3 comments
*****, posted February 12th, 2013, 3 comments
Left Field, posted January 30th, 2013
Naive .. still, posted January 11th, 2013, 8 comments
Suicidal, posted November 12th, 2012, 4 comments
Just too slow, posted September 26th, 2012
Judgements, posted September 4th, 2012, 4 comments
Burst Bubble, posted July 31st, 2012, 4 comments
Musing .. on things said in the past .. and mistaken meanings., posted July 19th, 2011, 7 comments
Pondering Friendship, posted June 5th, 2011, 6 comments
Doing it again!!, posted June 4th, 2011, 1 comment
New lease on my EP life :), posted May 16th, 2011, 13 comments
R.I.P., posted May 2nd, 2011, 1 comment
Crossed wires ...., posted April 28th, 2011, 10 comments
Tough going., posted April 25th, 2011, 5 comments
Family .. can't live with them ..., posted April 23rd, 2011, 13 comments
Mysteries of the Universe...., posted April 19th, 2011, 10 comments
Jumping Ship, posted April 19th, 2011, 14 comments
Come OOOOON already people!!!, posted March 29th, 2011, 20 comments
Trouble ..., posted March 22nd, 2011, 6 comments
Tarnished, posted March 15th, 2011, 13 comments
Parents ... or maybe not ..., posted March 4th, 2011, 10 comments
DILEMA ..., posted February 24th, 2011, 2 comments
Sometimes ..., posted February 22nd, 2011, 6 comments
Batten down the hatches!, posted February 2nd, 2011, 2 comments
Panties, posted January 27th, 2011, 2 comments
Aussie Day, posted January 25th, 2011
Not sure where this is going ..., posted January 14th, 2011, 15 comments
Ready!!, posted December 30th, 2010, 5 comments
One bottle ..... or two?, posted November 13th, 2010, 4 comments
Today marks the start ..., posted November 3rd, 2010, 8 comments
HELP ... my right arm is missing!!, posted October 20th, 2010, 13 comments
Ignorance is Bliss, posted October 15th, 2010, 2 comments
Profound and Life Altering, posted October 14th, 2010, 6 comments
The most beautiful picture in the world., posted October 6th, 2010, 3 comments
I know he loves me when...., posted September 15th, 2010, 11 comments
Silver linings., posted August 17th, 2010, 3 comments
Reflections, posted August 11th, 2010, 5 comments
Complaints..., posted August 4th, 2010, 3 comments
Did I break it?, posted August 4th, 2010, 4 comments
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